In case you're wondering who I am

Let me start off by letting you know how very grateful I am for my life, my family, the time to work on my own attitudes and of course, my income. If any of you are internet marketers, you know how difficult it is to break into the business. Well, I’m no different; I entered the field with delusions of grandeur, getting disillusioned over and over, you know the story. Why am I grateful for spending so much money for no return on investment? Ah, but I did! It is not in the form of financial gain so much YET, but in a much greater sense. I have grown in knowledge AND wisdom, mostly about who I really am and where I came from in my value system.

I have learned what in my value system works and what doesn’t. I’ve learned how to discard old worn out values and how and what to replace them with. I am grateful for my mentors who don’t even know I exist, like Bob Proctor, Tony Robbins, Charlie Page and more. If you don’t know who these people are, their names are links so you can be introduced to them.

I now, through my studies and self examination, KNOW I can be successful in anything I choose to do.  It took me a while to get to that point as I’ve had a lot of unlearning and reprogramming to do.  I’ve discovered that one of my biggest obstacles was one stronghold of a value I needed to discard and replace with one that works right now.  I’ve got the tools to change myself and my circumstances, to create my own future.

I’ve Sowed a great deal of time, effort and money into becoming the person I want to be.  Now is the time to begin reaping the benefits.  In my marketing, I’ve done the same thing…discarding and replacing what didn’t work to what I know does.  I had to do the mental adjustments BEFORE I could to the practical applications, otherwise I wouldn’t have the courage to proceed.

What am I getting myself into now in my marketing?  I’m beginning to learn video marketing.  WARNING  You will be seeing them on this blog from time to time as I’m learning.  I’ve not had any experience in this previously so you get the chance to watch me grow!  If you are in the West Palm Beach area and want to share what you know about videos, let me know. (leave a comment)

Tried uploading the first one here but it’s too big!  Back to the drawing board.

I’m reading a book by Tony Robbins, Awaken the Giant Within, that I highly recommend.  It’s an older book (2006) but the information is timeless.  A point that is of personal interest to me is how to, what I call, becoming “single minded”.  If you know any scriptures in the Bible, it says a double minded man is unstable in all his ways…Boy, that’s the truth!  He teaches some practical methods on how to change your old outdated beliefs that have a stronghold on you into the new beliefs that you deliberately choose.  At almost 60, I still have lots of excess baggage to get rid of that’s older than the hills. I’m learning exactly how to make my conscious and subconscious totally agree (to become single minded) and thus choose the appropriate actions that will propel me forward.

By perfecting my desires I mean changing how I feel about my old beliefs (painful and unfulfilling) instead of famliar and pleasurable and choosing new beliefs by reinforcing how good they are and how good they make me feel. As I continue to reinforce my new beliefs, I’m turning them into convictions that no one can change my mind about. Then that directs my every decision and action.  The passion or intensity I place on the pain of the old and the joy from the new is what forces me to change, sometimes instantly.  When I have mixed feelings about something, (the conscious and subconscious are NOT in total agreement) I’m not going to get it, I’m double minded!  When my belief becomes a conviction, which happens after I condition myself to firmly believe and feel it and associate strong pain to the old belief, My mind then searches out the actions to implement to manifest my desire.

If you’re a serious student to either change yourself or help someone else who wants to change something in their life, please get the book by Anthony Robbins, Awaken the Giant Within.  You can find it at nearly any bookstore. (I paid $16.95)  I did find recently where you can get the audio version of it on CD for only $5.60 from DiscountBookSale.com.  No, I don’t get a commission or anything, I’m just sharing to help you out.

Eben Pagan interviews Tony Robbins
http://www.getaltitude.com/teleclass/090831_tony_replay.asp

There are some VERY powerful techniques on here from Tony Robbins…
some of the very techniques he teaches in his Personal Power series
that is several hundred dollars – You get it free here.

These are also the same things I’m doing with my Life Coach.  This was this weeks assignment.

(this was not a part of the assignment but talk about a confirmation!)

Here are 3 of my mentors…all together:
http://tonyrobbinstraining.com/320/interview-with-frank-kern-and-john-reese

Again – If you’re already 100% fulfilled and happy, then just click away from this blog.  If you have the smallest inkling of desiring something more in your life…do yourself a favor and go listen to these free audios now.

To YOUR Ultimate Success!

Dale

PS   I’m not an affiliate, just an admirer.  I thought you could benefit greatly from them like I did.

“Dr. Stan Harris is a 10th degree Black Belt and a Breakthrough Specialist. His powerful trainings can help you to achieve things you may have never dreamed of and he is dedicated to your success. Dr. Stan is known for his exciting demonstrations and trainings where he breaks Concrete Blocks and shows people how to “Breakthrough” the barriers that stop them from success!”

Here are the 7 points with a brief explanation:

Work on Yourself, Then Work the System
What you put into your heart and mind is what you get placed into your ‘hand. I’m sure you heard the phrase, Garbage in – Garbage Out. What you allow into your being, what you think about, is what you actually receive. If you think from the lack perspective, you GET lack. If you think from the It’s mine now perspective, you Get gain. Only YOU can determine your thoughts and the results of those thoughts. ONLY YOU have that choice. Remember that what you sow, that shall you also reap. It is cause and effect.
After you get your mind/heart in order, then you work the system of the company you’re working with.
Save
Your
Self
Time
Energy
Money
Stress

Build a Network – Not a Career
Success is not reached by what you know. By building relationships with people, you are able to draw upon others strength (and visa-versa) to help the entire team. You loose out by going it alone and just building your own career. Give, and it shall be given unto you…pressed down, shaken together and overflowing…

Be a Product of Your Product
Dr. Harris explains that when you just try to sell your product or service, people turn you off. I know I do. You have to use your own product or service and just share from you heart, YOUR personal experience; no pressure, no hype, just truth. Talk your own story. They can make up their own minds.

Concentrate on Providing Solutions, NOT Sales
People don’t want to be sold to, but they do want their problem solved and are willing to pay for it.

Learn to Move People who can Move Products
When you find this gem, make sure you nurture this person to help him/her to progress even more. This causes everyone to win.

Look for Those Who are Looking for You
This is just plain market research. Find the need, then fill it.

How to NEVER get a No Answer
Say it First! It’s amazing how attitudes change when you try to take something away!

These were the 7 points of interest. Dr. Harris ended with a couple of really good tips:
Spend Maximum Time with Maximum People
Spend Minimal Time with Minimal Projects
In other words, you should be spending MOST of your time with people…not projects. After all, it’s people we should be serving!

Firmly   On   Course   Until   Successful          or       FOCUS

This is but one of the MANY accounts and trainings from The Mentors Club.  To check out this recommended site with several successful mentors, like Dr. Harris, Chuck Norris, Anthony Robbins, and many more, Click on this Link.

If you are in need of a Great SYSTEM to take your business even higher, You may visit my site:

http://LetMaxxxHelp.com

Blessings and Prosperity,

Dale Lovett

http://whoisdalelovett.com

http://mrsmaxxx.mentorsclub.com

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Chuck Norris Tony Robbins Paula Abdul Willie Nelson Robert Kiyasaki T. Harve Ecker Jack Canfield Scott Hamilton Mariel Hemingway Dr. Wayne Dyer Loral Langemeier Patrick Combs Ellie Drake Charlie T. Jones Bill Bartmann Dr. Joe Vitale Rhonda Byrne Gregory Reid Cynthia Kersey Les Brown Alex Mandossian Art Linkletter Frank Shamrock Barbara DeAngelis Bob Scheinfeld Maria Gresham Dr. Wayne Dyer Stedman Graham Debbie Allen Jim Rohn Mark Joyner John Assaraf Steve Gresham David Lynch Denis Waitley Stephen M R Covey Dr. John Gray Bill Bartman Bill Harris Jay Abraham Les Brown Dr. Reggie Cochran Dr. Ron Mueller Richard Norton AND MANY MORE!

Blessings and Prosperity,

Dale

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