If he can overcome the hand he was dealt, so can anyone.

NO excuse is big enough to stop you from accomplishing, doing and becoming what you want in life. Sean is living proof of that statement—and he’s going to show you how you can be too.

http://www.livingatcause.com/miniseries/welcome

This is the BEST content filled series I’ve seen in a very long time and it comes highly recommended.  It’s free but don’t let that stop you from watching!  Sean is an amazing guy!

http://www.livingatcause.com/miniseries/welcome

Enjoy,

Dale

I’m reading a book by Tony Robbins, Awaken the Giant Within, that I highly recommend.  It’s an older book (2006) but the information is timeless.  A point that is of personal interest to me is how to, what I call, becoming “single minded”.  If you know any scriptures in the Bible, it says a double minded man is unstable in all his ways…Boy, that’s the truth!  He teaches some practical methods on how to change your old outdated beliefs that have a stronghold on you into the new beliefs that you deliberately choose.  At almost 60, I still have lots of excess baggage to get rid of that’s older than the hills. I’m learning exactly how to make my conscious and subconscious totally agree (to become single minded) and thus choose the appropriate actions that will propel me forward.

By perfecting my desires I mean changing how I feel about my old beliefs (painful and unfulfilling) instead of famliar and pleasurable and choosing new beliefs by reinforcing how good they are and how good they make me feel. As I continue to reinforce my new beliefs, I’m turning them into convictions that no one can change my mind about. Then that directs my every decision and action.  The passion or intensity I place on the pain of the old and the joy from the new is what forces me to change, sometimes instantly.  When I have mixed feelings about something, (the conscious and subconscious are NOT in total agreement) I’m not going to get it, I’m double minded!  When my belief becomes a conviction, which happens after I condition myself to firmly believe and feel it and associate strong pain to the old belief, My mind then searches out the actions to implement to manifest my desire.

If you’re a serious student to either change yourself or help someone else who wants to change something in their life, please get the book by Anthony Robbins, Awaken the Giant Within.  You can find it at nearly any bookstore. (I paid $16.95)  I did find recently where you can get the audio version of it on CD for only $5.60 from DiscountBookSale.com.  No, I don’t get a commission or anything, I’m just sharing to help you out.

Climb with me!

It’s been a couple of weeks since I’ve posted anything.  I’ve been enjoying visits from my wonderful grandchildren over spring break.  Needless to say, we had a marvelous time and we were all sad to see our time together coming to an end.

Today I’d like to share with you an incredible lesson I’d obtained this morning during my Six Minutes to Success.  It’s about Roadblocks to our success.  This is taken directly from the book “The Secrets of Leadership” by Frank Kickbush. This answers some of the questions I’ve been having in my own quest toward mastering The Law of Attraction and creating the life I desire.  Most likely, you’ve had some questions as well.  The question is “Why am I unable to manifest that which I know is already mine?  I seem to have hit roadblocks to success.”

Today, I’ve been shown what those roadblocks are so I can tackle them one by one and overcome them.  Do you have any of these affecting your success?

We move backwards, to the right or to the left from obtaining our desires

• Whenever we are indecisive, waffle or are unclear in what we want to create in our life
• Whenever we change a decision we have made, change our mind or picture the polar opposite of what we want
• Whenever we entertain limiting thoughts of fear, guilt, unworthiness
• Whenever we lack belief or trust in ourselves, in universal possibility and potential resources
• Whenever we lack deep commitment to following through with our decision
• Whenever we lack faith and expectation in the real but unseen phase of physical creation
• Whenever we lack well thought out purpose and clear vision
• Whenever we fail to make subsequent decisions which naturally flows from progressing along the path of creation

I hope this helps you in your quest to be the best you can be as it’s helped me.  I highly recommend that you join Six Minutes to Success with Bob Proctor.  I’ve been involved with this program for about a year now and I can’t imagine a morning without these daily exercises to keep me in check as well as advance in my personal development.  There’s a banner link on the right or just click the link in this article.

When you feel strongly about something without logical basis to it, that’s called intuition. It comes in three impressions: clairvoyance or “the third eye”, sensing clearly and feeling through listening.

Clairvoyance is when your eye goes beyond what it can see. This is when you know what is happening somewhere.

Sensing clearly is basically what we refer to as “hunch” or “gut feel.” This is the time when you are overwhelmed with a feeling and you can’t explain it and all you can say is “I just know.”

On the other hand, feeling through listening or clairaudience is being able to “listen” between the lines. Intuition also happens at times when a certain sound, whatever it is – be it a car’s honk or a bird’s twitting – ushers in an intense feeling.

They say only a number of people are gifted with intuition. Astrologers even insist that people born under the Scorpio or Pisces signs are naturally intuitive it almost borders on E.S.P. But studies have been sprouting left and right that proclaim that anyone can develop intuition.

Why the need to develop intuition, you ask? Why not let your emotional and psychological state as it is? First and foremost, intuition promotes good communication. It makes you more sensitive to the people around you; it often keeps you from hurting those you love because you are intuitive enough to understand them. Intuition also makes you far more creative than ever. Intuition means releasing more creative juices for any means of expression. Lastly, intuition has a healing power. This healing power is not in the physical sense, but in delving deep into your soul to eradicate some negative energy buried in it.

With that being said, are you ready to develop your intuition? Here are some ways to unlock this gift:

1. Hypnosis

Oh yes, get yourself hypnotized. Hypnosis is not limited to watching a pendulum move back and forth. Perform self-hypnosis or you can avail of hypnotic programs that can strengthen your intuition.  A form of hypnosis and meditation I’ve experimented with is audio entrainment.  Entrainment is defined as the synchronization of two or more rhythmic cycles. The purpose is to synchronize your conscious and subconscious mind (to become single-minded).  The program I used was Manifestation Meditation. (I am not an affiliate)

2. Meditation

Meditating means finding peace in yourself. If your mind and heart are cluttered with too many baggage and hurt,  you wouldn’t be able to quiet down that part of you that could eventually initiate intuition. There are so many ways to meditate: take a yoga class, or just simply practice some breathing that could bring you straight to Zen.

3. Think positive!

A worry-free, fear-free state could do so much to improve your intuitive ability. By staying positive, you attract good energy that would be able to easily recognize imminent feelings and events.

4.  Just let go.

What does this mean? If you are on the brink of making a huge decision, let go of all the inhibitions and head to a quiet place where you could find out where the letting go has brought you. Sometimes you just have to listen to the voice within you, and that voice wouldn’t come out unless you let go.

5. Never expect OR expect a miracle

After letting go of the inhibitions and all those things that stop you from thinking and feeling clearly, never expect for an answer right away. Never expect that the “hunch” would fall on your lap immediately. Give it a little time then you’d just get surprised that — wham! — now you have your answer.  OR   The other line of thought on this is to expect it to happen.  No good thing does God (or the universe) with-hold.  You’ll have to see which method works well for you.

6. Believe in your first impressions.

When you see someone for the first time and think that he is a bit too arrogant for your taste, chances are that impression actually holds true. Most of the time, first impressions are brought by intuition.

7. Stay happy!

See? All you need to be intuitive is to stay happy! Happiness attracts immense power and such power includes intuition. In tapping your intuition, your motivation must be happiness and contentment. Given that premise, intuition will fall to you easily.

Intuition is helpful, because sometimes it leads you to something that cannot be achieved otherwise. A lot of lives have been saved by intuition alone. Decisions are easier done if armed by this gift. Develop intuition now and reap benefits you have never imagined.

As a side note, I’ve found that this is where I connect with God (the Universe).  I just got back into using my intuition after not even considering it for several years.  I always considered myself to be too busy!  What a lie!

I listened to a very interesting audio today by Bob Proctor. It hit me in just the right place and I found it so informative, I just had to share the information with you. It was one of the Bonuses on “Six Minutes to Success” to which I start my day every morning with my cup of coffee.

I won’t get into the whole thing but just a single point that struck me. This very point I had been pondering for quite some time…like months. It is this: How can you move from the point of believing to the place of KNOWING! I know that a quote from the Bible says “…believe that you receive and you shall have it.” Getting the believing part secured into my sub-conscious was hard enough but still did NOT get me my desired results! There’s MORE. I have to KNOW beyond a shadow of doubt that which I desire IS MINE.

The good thing is I have had that experience once in my life to draw upon to reinforce this new mindset. This was actually a prayer request that was first and foremost on my mind. It was something that was completely out of my control so I could only rely on God to deliver it. There was absolutely no way I could “help Him” or take any credit. I held this particular outcome consciously for over 5 years, praying without ceasing. Every time I thought about it, I gave it to God (or the Universe). My prayers we not always the kind where I was on my knees although there were times when I did. Most of it was done by thoughts in my head, battling it out in my mind; fighting fears, doubts, scepticism which came up all too often. By continuously rejecting those internal thoughts and choosing to believe what it says in the Bible instead, I gradually began to really believe. I had become obsessed with it. Believing was really just the middle of my positive outcome. My internal war had not yet been completely won but my daily battles were being won more and more frequently.

As I said earlier, this part took a long time as I had to actively reinforce my new belief (desired outcome) and actively starve my old beliefs by rejecting them every time I became aware of them. One night as I was in bed praying, I just KNEW. No longer did I have to pray about it. All I did from then on is be grateful. Things did not outwardly change right away but within a few weeks, it did. I’d like to mention that during that brief time, things did get worse before it got better. My take on that is that the “bad” set the stage for the final desired outcome.

This was the same process Bob Proctor described in the audio I listen to. I had forgotten all about it until he reminded me of it. Once again, I have a strong desire but this time I have to not only believe but also take some action on my part, other than just praying. This concerns financial desires. I’m planning on using this technique again. Here is one of the tools I’m using and taking action with.

Check it Out!

]]> http://letmaxxxhelp.net/how-do-you-know/feed 0 http://letmaxxxhelp.net/10-questions-you-should-ask-yourself http://letmaxxxhelp.net/10-questions-you-should-ask-yourself#comments Sun, 10 Jan 2010 16:57:25 +0000 admin http://letmaxxxhelp.net/?p=235 “What Really Makes You Tick?” 10 questions you should ask to yourself: a preparation to self-improvement for the New Year.

Be all you can be, but it’s not always in the Army. I often see myself as somewhat contented with my life the way things are, but of course it’s hard to think of anything else when where are real issues to be discussed.

Still I aspire for something deeper and more meaningful.

So we’re all pelted with problems. Honestly it shouldn’t even bother or even hinder us to becoming all we ought to be. Aspirations as kids should continue to live within us, even though it would be short-lived or as long as we could hold on to the dream. They say you can’t teach an old dog new tricks… or can they?

1. What do I really want?
The question of the ages. So many things you want to do with your life and so little time to even go about during the day.  I personally had been so “busy” that I never took the time to think about it.  Don’t do what I did or you will live your life only for others, giving up your own power of your destiny.

Find something that you are good at can help realize that small step towards improvement. Diligence is the key to know that it is worth it.  Find something YOU are passionate about; this will keep you motivated.

2. Should I really change?
Today’s generation has taken another level of redefining ’self’, or at least that’s what the kids are saying. Having worked with kids of all ages has taught me that there are far worse things that they could have had than acne or maybe even promiscuity. So how does that fit into your lifestyle?

If history has taught us one thing, it’s the life that we have gone through. Try to see if partying Seventies style wouldn’t appeal to the younger generation, but dancing is part of partying. Watch them applaud after showing them how to really dance than break their bones in break-dancing.

3. What’s the bright side in all of this?
With so much is happening around us there seem to be no room for even considering that light at the end of the tunnel. We can still see it as something positive without undergoing so much scrutiny. And if it’s a train at the end of the tunnel, take it for a ride and see what makes the world go round!

4. Am I comfortable with what I’m doing?
There’s always the easy way and the right way when it comes to deciding what goes with which shoes, or purse, shirt and whatnot. It doesn’t take a genius to see yourself as someone unique, or else we’ll all be equally the same in everything we do. Variety brings in very interesting and exciting questions to be experimented.

5. Have I done enough for myself?
Have you, or is there something more you want to do? Discontentment in every aspect can be dangerous in large doses, but in small amounts you’ll be able to see and do stuff you could never imagine doing.  It may be out of your comfort zone but that makes life exciting.  Try doing something different.

6. Am I happy at where I am today?
It’s an unfair question so let it be an answer! You love being a good and loving mom or dad to your kids, then take it up a notch! Your kids will love you forever. The same goes with everyday life!

7. Am I appealing to the opposite sex?
So maybe I don’t have an answer to that, but that doesn’t mean I can’t try it, though. Whether you shape-up, change the way you wear your clothes or hair, or even your attitude towards people, you should always remember it will always be for your own benefit.

8. How much could I have?
I suppose in this case there is no such things on having things too much or too little, but it’s more on how badly you really need it. I’d like to have lots of money, no denying that, but the question is that how much are you willing to work for it?

9. What motivates me?
What motivates you? It’s an answer you have to find out for yourself. There are so many things that can make everyone happy, but to choose one of them may be the hardest part. It’s not like you can’t have one serving of your favorite food in a buffet and that’s it. Just try it piece by piece.

10. What Really Makes You Tick?
So? What really makes you tick? You can be just about anything you always wanted to be, but to realize that attaining something that may seem very difficult is already giving up before you even start that journey. Always remember, that self-improvement is not just about the physical or philosophical change you have to undergo, but it’s something that you really want.

It’s the beginning of a New Year and a new decade.  Do yourself a favor and take some time today to answer these questions for yourself.  Don’t stop there either.  Make a plan to carry out these ideas and do it.  Your life will much happier and your self confidence will grow.

Life isn’t the sweetest candy. Sometimes, when I feel like the world is just too heavy, I look around and find people who continued to live fascinating and wonderful lives. And then thoughts come popping into my mind like bubbles from nowhere – “How did their life become so adorably sweet? How come they still can manage to laugh and play around despite a busy stressful life?”  Then I pause and observed for awhile… I figured out that maybe, they start to work on a place called ‘self’.

So, how does one become genuinely happy? Step 1 is to love yourself.

My theology professor once said that “loving means accepting.”  To love oneself means to accept that you are not a perfect being, but behind the imperfections must lie a great ounce of courage to be able to discover ways on how to improve your repertoire to recover from our mistakes.

Genuine happiness also pertains to contentment. When you are contented with the job you have, the way you look, with your family, your friends, the place you live in, your car, and all the things you now have – truly, you know the answer to the question “how to be genuinely happy.”

When we discover a small start somewhere from within, that small start will eventually lead to something else, and to something else. But if you keep questioning life lit it has never done you any good, you will never be able to find genuine happiness.

I believe that life is about finding out about right and wrong, trying and failing, wining and losing. These are things that happen as often as you inhale and exhale. Failure, in a person’s life has become as abundant and necessary as air. But this should not hinder us from becoming happy.

How to be genuinely happy in spite all these? I tell you… every time you exert effort to improve the quality of life and your being, whether it is cleaning up your room, helping a friend, taking care of your sick dog, fail on board exams and trying again, life gives you equivalent points for that.

Imagine life as a big score board like those which are used in the NFLs. Every time you take a step forward, you make scoring points. Wouldn’t it be nice to look at that board at the end of each game and think to yourself “Whew! I got a point today. I’m glad I gave it a shot.”, instead of looking at it all blank and murmur “Geez, I didn’t even hit a score today. I wish I had the guts to try out. We could have won!” and then walk away.  I keep score by writing down at least 3 things I did that made me feel proud per day…  Even the little things like I made a stranger feel good by complimenting them, someone at the checkout counter needed a few cents so as not to have to break a larger bill and give it to them, or even a smile to someone who appeared to be down.

Genuine happiness isn’t about driving the hottest Formula 1 car, nor getting the employee of the year award, earning the highest 13th month pay, or beating the sales quota. Sometimes, the most sought after prizes in life doesn’t always go to the fastest, the strongest, the bravest or not even the best. So, how do you become genuinely happy?  Every one has his own definition of ‘happiness’. Happiness for a writer may mean launching as much best selling books as possible. Happiness for a basketball rookie may mean getting the rookie of the year award. Happiness for a beggar may mean a lot of money. Happiness for a business man may mean success. So, really now, how do we become genuinely happy? Simple. You don’t have to have the best things in this world. Its about doing and making the best out of every single thing. When you find yourself smiling at your own mistake and telling your self “Oh, I’ll do better next time”, you carry with you a flame of strong will power to persevere that may spread out like a brush fire. You possess a willingness to stand up again and try – that will make you a genuinely happy person.

Learn to accept yourself and your own faults.   This is not as easy as it sounds for some of us.  I am my own worst critic and that caused me to have a limiting belief that if I wasn’t perfect, I wasn’t worthy of acceptance.  I have finally overcome and replaced that lie using a technique called EFT.  As long as you know how to accept others, including yourself, you will also be accepted. For as long as you love and know how to love, you will receive love ten folds back.

Again, throw me that same question “how to become genuinely happy?”. I’ll refer you to a friend of mine who strongly quoted- “Most of us know that laughter is the best medicine to life’s aches and pain. But most of us don’t know that the best kind of laughter is laughter over self. Coz then you don’t just become happy… you become free.”