Today was my first life coaching session.  Can I tell you how excited I am?  Not only am I excited about these next 3 months, I’m beginning to see manifestations of my ideas and dreams!  A few months ago, I had absolutely NO idea what my niche would be let alone make a living from what I LOVE to do.  I couldn’t even figure out what I wanted.  I spent so many years devoting my life to others, I lost sight of who I was and what I wanted as I always put what I wanted last.  All I knew is what I didn’t want which was not wanting to work for someone else.  My reason, I knew I would never get ahead, never get to a place where I could live my own life.  I was working a job because I HAD TO; not because it was my life’s purpose or that I liked it.  I must admit that my customers were deceived into thinking that I loved my job because I loved them!

I was introduced to the Law of Attraction about 6 months ago and had decided to go ahead and start imagining (SEE) how I’d like my life to be.  Like I said, that was a daunting task.  When I did that, next I had to BELIEVE I RECEIVE it.  That was even more difficult.  My upbringing had always been to have just enough to get by, nothing more was needed.  If you wanted more, it meant you were greedy which was a bad thing.  Other teachings I had adopted was “I” was at the center of “sIn”.  These were my 2 largest mindsets to overcome.

Anyway, I want to share with you some of the exercises I’m given as homework.  Hopefully, you will do the assignments, learn from them and not have to spend any money.  (I’m spending it because I really do need a coach to prod and poke me to go beyond my comfort zone.)  I also want to be a master of my thoughts in a short amount of time and I’m fully commited to that.  I am my greatest enemy.

The first thing on the assignment: Now, write all the wonderful things about yourself and the things you have done that you are proud of. I want to know all of them. And feel free to email the list to me.  My coach told me this should be at leat 2 – 3 pages worth!  Whew!  My first thought is I don’t have that many!!!  Include ALL the little ones as well!

Then each day, write down something you did today that you were proud of.

Second thing on this Assignment: Write down EVERYTHING you DON’T WANT in your life.  Look at all areas of your life, and list the things you currently have that you do not want. Areas to consider may be your job, your boss, your finances, your spouse, a friend, or even your car.

One of those things for me has all ready happened!  I spoke of that in the first paragraph.

My personal assignment was to do something in my business that I normally would not do unless challenged…something that is outside my comfort zone.  I have decided that to be to assemble my “mastermind” team of 5 like-minded people.  Now I know of no one personally at the moment but I know these folks are coming into my life.  I have a definite reason to create a team or a board.  A lot more things can be accomplished than with just 1 person….as well as seeing things from different perspectives.  If you think you may be that person, email me.  Just put your subject line ALL IN CAPS so I can see it right away.

If you want your own coach, go to http://OutrageousMastery.com

Blessings and Prosperity,

Dale  (mrsmaxxx)

mrsmaxxx@gmail.com

If the Son sets you Free, You're FREE INDEED!

Since I don’t usually post a blog in the week-ends, I thought I’d give you something to help you in YOUR online endeavors. Enjoy!

Oh, I’m working on something I think you’ll enjoy. It is something I found to Really help you make money. To be honest, it’s the best one I’ve seen yet! It certainly is helping me! Keep your eyes open.

Yesterday, during my own scheduled personal development time (I’d rather do this than watch TV) I watched an interview with Mike Dillard and Jay Kubassek. If you don’t know, these guys both became multi-millionaires using the internet. Mike’s claim to fame is the Magnetic Sponsoring System, which was one of the first systems out to use the “Law of Attraction” method of business building. Jay was another one. His baby is Carbon Copy Pro. Both started from nothing and worked their way up to their present status. I don’t know about you but I like to study successful people because I want to be successful.

A little side note: My husband was sitting next to me as was listening to some of what they were saying. He thinks it’s ALL Hogwash. I can’t wait to prove him otherwise! I am now to the point in life where I know I can and I am becoming successful. I’ve spent this past year just working on myself, not only with my mindset and attitudes but also learning different marketing techniques, a few technical skills, though I’ve got a really loooong way to go with that one. Basically, I was increasing my personal value. If my mission in life is to help people to live a happy and productive life, I had to know what I really have to offer and strengthen those attributes. Then I began to see some of the ares of my life where I needed total attitude adjustments. I’ve been working on those too. My husband Danny, doesn’t consider my training as work,though he would if I was working for someone else and had to do it. Go figure. His proof of my passion is the money. To me, that’s just a by product of pursuing my passion.

Back to the interview…I can’t go into detail but I can give you the basic nuggets.
1. Work on yourself first, then the system.
a. You will never out perform your self image.
b. What you put into your heart and mind is what you end up getting in your hands.
c. Associate with successful people; listen to them. They gave a little exercise to help determine who not to listen to: Make a list of people in your circle of influence and about how much they make (income). Are they where you want to be? Consider this when they try to talk you out of becoming an entrepreneur. Do you want to listen to them?

2. Discover a system that works for you. Here is the basic system you can start with.
a. Capture People’s Attention (lead generation)
b. Build Trust and Relationships
c. Provide Social Proof and Examples
d. Remove the Risk
e. Provide Incentives and Special Offers
f. Sift, Sort and Qualify your Leads
g. Good companies provide a professional call center to close sales since most of us are not adept at this.
h. Duplication = Residual Income.

I personally have not signed up with Carbon Copy Pro, though I am considering it. Here is what I really liked that Jay said:

“If your intention is to sell a product and make money, don’t even get started. You have to be completely honest with yourself. What are your intentions? You don’t GET to become successful and have people line up to work with you just because you want to make money, have a better life, quit your job, get that diamond ring, and take your kids to Disneyland….Your intentions MUST be to empower others and HELP THEM GET WHAT THEY WANT! This is one of the biggest mistakes people make. People are so focused of what they want that they scare off their customers because they are so pathetically needy.”

The moral of the story is work on your self first and KNOW what you have to offer. This will eliminate all your fears, cause you to have a quiet confidence to be More Able to help others.

Dale Lovett

http://whoisdalelovett.com