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Blessings and Prosperity
Dale

In case you're wondering who I am

Let me start off by letting you know how very grateful I am for my life, my family, the time to work on my own attitudes and of course, my income. If any of you are internet marketers, you know how difficult it is to break into the business. Well, I’m no different; I entered the field with delusions of grandeur, getting disillusioned over and over, you know the story. Why am I grateful for spending so much money for no return on investment? Ah, but I did! It is not in the form of financial gain so much YET, but in a much greater sense. I have grown in knowledge AND wisdom, mostly about who I really am and where I came from in my value system.

I have learned what in my value system works and what doesn’t. I’ve learned how to discard old worn out values and how and what to replace them with. I am grateful for my mentors who don’t even know I exist, like Bob Proctor, Tony Robbins, Charlie Page and more. If you don’t know who these people are, their names are links so you can be introduced to them.

I now, through my studies and self examination, KNOW I can be successful in anything I choose to do.  It took me a while to get to that point as I’ve had a lot of unlearning and reprogramming to do.  I’ve discovered that one of my biggest obstacles was one stronghold of a value I needed to discard and replace with one that works right now.  I’ve got the tools to change myself and my circumstances, to create my own future.

I’ve Sowed a great deal of time, effort and money into becoming the person I want to be.  Now is the time to begin reaping the benefits.  In my marketing, I’ve done the same thing…discarding and replacing what didn’t work to what I know does.  I had to do the mental adjustments BEFORE I could to the practical applications, otherwise I wouldn’t have the courage to proceed.

What am I getting myself into now in my marketing?  I’m beginning to learn video marketing.  WARNING  You will be seeing them on this blog from time to time as I’m learning.  I’ve not had any experience in this previously so you get the chance to watch me grow!  If you are in the West Palm Beach area and want to share what you know about videos, let me know. (leave a comment)

Tried uploading the first one here but it’s too big!  Back to the drawing board.

I’m hoping to help this company out locally…but nationally would be good too.

Enjoy.

I’m reading a book by Tony Robbins, Awaken the Giant Within, that I highly recommend.  It’s an older book (2006) but the information is timeless.  A point that is of personal interest to me is how to, what I call, becoming “single minded”.  If you know any scriptures in the Bible, it says a double minded man is unstable in all his ways…Boy, that’s the truth!  He teaches some practical methods on how to change your old outdated beliefs that have a stronghold on you into the new beliefs that you deliberately choose.  At almost 60, I still have lots of excess baggage to get rid of that’s older than the hills. I’m learning exactly how to make my conscious and subconscious totally agree (to become single minded) and thus choose the appropriate actions that will propel me forward.

By perfecting my desires I mean changing how I feel about my old beliefs (painful and unfulfilling) instead of famliar and pleasurable and choosing new beliefs by reinforcing how good they are and how good they make me feel. As I continue to reinforce my new beliefs, I’m turning them into convictions that no one can change my mind about. Then that directs my every decision and action.  The passion or intensity I place on the pain of the old and the joy from the new is what forces me to change, sometimes instantly.  When I have mixed feelings about something, (the conscious and subconscious are NOT in total agreement) I’m not going to get it, I’m double minded!  When my belief becomes a conviction, which happens after I condition myself to firmly believe and feel it and associate strong pain to the old belief, My mind then searches out the actions to implement to manifest my desire.

If you’re a serious student to either change yourself or help someone else who wants to change something in their life, please get the book by Anthony Robbins, Awaken the Giant Within.  You can find it at nearly any bookstore. (I paid $16.95)  I did find recently where you can get the audio version of it on CD for only $5.60 from DiscountBookSale.com.  No, I don’t get a commission or anything, I’m just sharing to help you out.

Climb with me!

It’s been a couple of weeks since I’ve posted anything.  I’ve been enjoying visits from my wonderful grandchildren over spring break.  Needless to say, we had a marvelous time and we were all sad to see our time together coming to an end.

Today I’d like to share with you an incredible lesson I’d obtained this morning during my Six Minutes to Success.  It’s about Roadblocks to our success.  This is taken directly from the book “The Secrets of Leadership” by Frank Kickbush. This answers some of the questions I’ve been having in my own quest toward mastering The Law of Attraction and creating the life I desire.  Most likely, you’ve had some questions as well.  The question is “Why am I unable to manifest that which I know is already mine?  I seem to have hit roadblocks to success.”

Today, I’ve been shown what those roadblocks are so I can tackle them one by one and overcome them.  Do you have any of these affecting your success?

We move backwards, to the right or to the left from obtaining our desires

• Whenever we are indecisive, waffle or are unclear in what we want to create in our life
• Whenever we change a decision we have made, change our mind or picture the polar opposite of what we want
• Whenever we entertain limiting thoughts of fear, guilt, unworthiness
• Whenever we lack belief or trust in ourselves, in universal possibility and potential resources
• Whenever we lack deep commitment to following through with our decision
• Whenever we lack faith and expectation in the real but unseen phase of physical creation
• Whenever we lack well thought out purpose and clear vision
• Whenever we fail to make subsequent decisions which naturally flows from progressing along the path of creation

I hope this helps you in your quest to be the best you can be as it’s helped me.  I highly recommend that you join Six Minutes to Success with Bob Proctor.  I’ve been involved with this program for about a year now and I can’t imagine a morning without these daily exercises to keep me in check as well as advance in my personal development.  There’s a banner link on the right or just click the link in this article.

I just came across this really helpful (understatement) video by John Reese.

Earlier in his life, John Reese had been on a path that led him to a stage where he was over $108,000 in debt. He felt depressed and suicidal. Then he stumbled on a “procedure” that enabled him to change direction to a new path that made success possible. He turned his life around, became a well-known and respected millionaire Internet marketer. He has since, over a period of about 15 years, refined the initial procedure into a “comprehensive method” you can literally use to “reboot your brain!”

There is no charge to watch this video or nothing to sign up for.  This is purely for your edification.  I’m couldn’t wait to tell you and right after I finish this post, I’m starting the exercise.

Clear Out the Clutter in Your Mind

Grab yourself your favorite beverage, relax and listen.  You might want to bookmark this as one time will Not be enough.

Click on it and enjoy.  I’m off to do my first session.  It takes a few minutes to download so you may want to start it first, then get your drink!

Do me a favor, when you’re finished, drop me a line to let me know your thoughts!  Thanks.

Blessings and Prosperity,  Dale

Speaking of Prosperity, click on one of the banners on the right to learn the practical aspects of obtaining wealth.

You vs. The Corporation

If you’re like me, you’re sick of corporate America! I have a really hard time with unrealistic expectations put on people. Here’s an example.

A person I know is a manager for a smaller entity of a very large corporation. He is allotted only so many hours to schedule his employees. He is a man down, meaning he is one employee shy to run the business properly. He’s not allowed to pay any overtime to his people & he himself is not allowed to work more than 48 hours per week. There is a hiring/wage freeze. The place is allowed only one employee at a time, who is responsible for keeping the inside up as well as the outside, the restroom too, which is accessible only from the outside, as well as stay on the register to care for the customers. Might I add, there are lots of customers since the place is very busy with not much “down time”. The secret shopper shows up during the busy time and is expecting a picture perfect environment. A percentage of the score is lowered for EVERY infraction and don’t think for a moment that the manager’s boss isn’t all over him for every one of them. Corporate institutions make more and more impossible expectations from their “people”. Those who “do” meet all the criterion are either lying on their reports or breaking some company policies. It’s impossible to meet the expectations and not! I think you get the picture. It may even sound familiar.

Can anyone wonder why there are so many stress related illnesses when most folks work this way? …when the bottom line is MORE important than those who are actually doing the work and creating profits?…when the worker is constantly in fear of loosing his job for no real reason other than getting someone else to the same job for less pay?  I have worked for companies where they wanted higher turnover so they wouldn’t have to increase wages for loyal employees.  It was actually cheaper in the quick fix, to constantly train new people.

I would much rather work for myself, take responsibility for my own actions (or inactions), be responsible only to me and those I choose to. If I’m going to have stress, I’d rather it be self imposed instead of have it imposed upon me.

After a couple of years of learning, experimenting, testing, I now make a living online. Even during my learning days when hardly any income was flowing my way,, I felt so much better about my life. I was creating my own reality, not allowing someone else the power over me. I developed respect for myself and others who do not fit into the expected, working a J.O.B. (Just Over Broke). Don’t get me wrong, I work, and sometimes long hours, but it’s something I create, enjoy and desire to share the new found freedom.

What do I do? I teach people how to make money apart from having a job. I teach how to make money with your own business. It doesn’t matter what that business is or if there is no business yet.

Sound interesting? Check out this video my friend Frank made. He explains it all very well.

http://MoneyMakingSystem7707.com

I can get back to you after you fill out that short form giving me permission to do so.

The Blarney Stone is a historical stone, or actually part of the Blarney Castle in Ireland where it was believed that kissing the stone can grant you the gift of gab. Yeah, it seems strange in this day and age, but who are we to question tradition? It’s not like I’m saying that Santa Claus doesn’t exist (OOPS!).

There is so much to know about conversation that anyone, even I, could ever realize. You can go though watching talk shows; radio programs; clubs dedicated to public speaking; ordinary conversations; certain rules still apply when it comes to interaction through words. It may sound tedious, I know, but even though it’s your mouth that’s doing the work, your brain works twice as hard to churn out a lot of things you know. So what better way to start learning to be an effective communication is to know the very person closest to you: yourself.

1. What you know.
Education is all about learning the basics, but to be an effective speaker is to practice what you’ve learned. My stint as guest at every Toastmasters’ meeting I go to taught me that we all have our limitations, but that doesn’t mean we can’t learn to keep up and share what we know.

2. Listening.
It’s just as important as asking questions. Sometimes listening to the sound of our own voice can teach us to be a little bit confident with ourselves and to say the things we believe in with conviction.  I find that it is better to learn listening skills so that when you do respond, you know how to answer what is actually being asked.  Most of us are so concerned with sharing our own ideas, we miss out on how to help others effectively.

3. Humility
We all make mistakes, and sometimes we tend to slur our words, stutter, and probably mispronounce certain words even though we know what it means, but rarely use it only to impress listeners. So in a group, don’t be afraid to ask if you’re saying the right word properly and if they’re unsure about it then make a joke out of it. I promise you it’ll make everyone laugh and you can get away with it as well.

4. Eye Contact
There’s a lot to say when it comes to directing your attention to your audience with an eye-catching gaze. It’s important that you keep your focus when talking to a large group in a meeting or a gathering, even though he or she may be gorgeous.

5. Kidding around
A little bit of humor can do wonders to lift the tension, or worse boredom when making your speech. That way, you’ll get the attention of the majority of the crowd and they’ll feel that you’re just as approachable, and as human to those who listen.

6. Be like the rest of them
Interaction is all about mingling with other people. You’ll get a lot of ideas, as well as knowing what people make them as they are.

7. Me, Myself, and I
Admit it, there are times you sing to yourself in the shower. I know I do! Listening to the sound of your own voice while you practice your speech in front of a mirror can help correct the stress areas of your pitch. And while you’re at it you can spruce up as well.

8. With a smile
A smile says it all much like eye contact. There’s no point on grimacing or frowning in a meeting or a gathering, unless it’s a wake. You can better express what you’re saying when you smile.  I used to be in radio and did you know that people know if you’re smiling or not even when they don’t see you?  It’s true!

9. A Role Model
There must be at least one or two people in your life you have listened to when they’re at a public gathering or maybe at church. Sure they read their lines, but taking a mental note of how they emphasize what they say can help you once you take center stage.

10. Preparation
Make the best out of preparation rather than just scribbling notes and often in a hurried panic. Some people like to write things down on index cards, while other resort to being a little more silly as they look at their notes written on the palm of their hand (not for clammy hands, please). Just be comfortable with what you know since you enjoy your work.

And that about wraps it up. These suggestions are rather amateurish in edgewise, but I’ve learned to empower myself when it comes to public or private speaking and it never hurts to be with people to listen how they make conversations and meetings far more enjoyable as well as educational.

Oh, One more thing.  I guess this makes it 11 Ways…When you do speak publically, something I keep in mind is not the size of the crowd…I’m speaking to only One person.  There’s a couple of reasons for this:  The first one is the fear factor.  Some of us are terrified to get up and speak to a large gathering.  Just look at it as speaking to a friend and some of the fear goes away.  The other reason is that those listening feel a more intimate connection with you and relate to what you’re saying much more than just listening to a lecture.  (I used this technique both publically and on the radio.)